kaha chali gyi hai saali KHUSH!!!!!!

Main dil se kaha dhund lana khushii , nasamajh laya ghum, to yeh ghum hi sahi....

Lyrics from one of the fav. song describe all about my dilemma.

Dhundha sab kahi hai, par paya nahi kahi hai... ya
Dhundha jaha nahi hai, paya sab wahi hai....

Nothing is absolute in this World (except GOD - I believe so)

Happiness & Sorrow both are relative to each other and with themselves too....

We feel happy when we see someone whom we love, happy & we feel happy when we see someone whom we hate, unhappy.
--vice-versa--
We feel unhappy when we see someone whom we love, unhappy & we feel unhappy when we see someone whom we hate, happy.

Our happiness is not absolute neither is sorrow. Our happiness is affected by our surrounding.

We fell HAPPY when we compare ourselves with people who are less successful/educated/privileged & similarly we fell UnHAPPY when we compare ourselves with more successful/educated/privileged ones.